Christianity and masculinity


Are Christian guys not taking dating seriously Commentary

Are Christian guys not taking dating seriously is one of the newer posts making rounds of the old facebook, which unfortunately includes me. Young Christian men, we have a problem. It’s a problem that will require all of our courage, … Continue reading
Christianity and masculinity
July 27, 2017, 7:12 p.m.

Treat your wife (or girlfriend) like an adult

I think one of the interesting scenarios that may come up fairly often in marriage is one of the situations that I recently experienced. Not the first time I experienced it, but it is particularly common especially when a husband … Continue reading
Christianity and masculinity
July 26, 2017, 11:05 p.m.

Feminism creates “unsafe men,” then complains about it

OK, I couldn’t resist. Going back to Dalrock’s piece on the mom who thinks that her boys are unsafe. Let’s talk about men who are actually unsafe. First, we need to define terms. By “unsafe men” I mean actual “perpetrators … Continue reading
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July 21, 2017, 5:51 p.m.

Wife wears what husband wants

Since Dalrock ended up getting to the crazy mother who believes her sons are unsafe because they’re men first, I’ll go a different direction. I’ve written before about what women can do to be more attractive to men. Indeed, it … Continue reading
Christianity and masculinity
July 14, 2017, 1:36 p.m.

Wedding photography?

A friend sent me a link. It’s pretty short, so I’ll quote the whole thing. There’s boudoir photography, and then there’s… this. A reader spotted this strange “wedding photographer needed” ad posted on Craigslist by someone in Wisconsin. Apparently there’s … Continue reading
Christianity and masculinity
July 6, 2017, 5:11 p.m.

Attitudes and marriage

Lots of good responses and warnings in the marriage advice thread. Anyone getting married in this day and age needs to look at marriage in the context of God versus the culture/state. The attitude of a person going into marriage … Continue reading
Christianity and masculinity
June 29, 2017, 11:52 p.m.

Marriage advice: free for all

As I am getting married soon, hit me up with your top pieces of marriage advice. Both men and women are both welcome to comment. It does not necessarily need to be from the Scriptures, as those have been extensively … Continue reading
Christianity and masculinity
June 26, 2017, 3:27 a.m.

Don’t put her needs above yours

Dalrock’s latest post on man up and share your feelings quotes from the post her needs above yours. I want to focus on the title of the post, as that’s where it all starts and goes off the bandwagon. It … Continue reading
Christianity and masculinity
June 23, 2017, 8:15 p.m.

Complementarians make husbands into neutered dogs

Lost Patrol commented on Tim Willard’s ‘lending strength’ segment which is the thrust of ‘servant leadership’ in my previous post. This a good post, with a valid prescription that will be very hard for most people to fill these days. … Continue reading
Christianity and masculinity
June 22, 2017, 9:05 p.m.

How do I know if we should get married analysis

How do I know if we should get married is a post from Boundless a couple weeks ago. I’ve been meaning to get to it, especially since I’m getting married soon. The article is pretty short, so I’m gonna quote … Continue reading
Christianity and masculinity
June 22, 2017, 1:24 a.m.

Another divorce

I’m finally back from a very busy period. There’s been another “high profile divorce” as Proverbs 31 ministries Lysa TerKeurst has apparently divorced her husband with numerous commentaries (the comments are always the most interesting part of course). It’s pretty … Continue reading
Christianity and masculinity
June 17, 2017, 5:32 p.m.

Successful marriage and good marriage

Jason’s comment on one of Dalrock’s recent posts is worth critically analyzing because it has a lot of assumptions packed into it about the definition of a “good marriage.” There’s a lot that is wrong with the current evangelical Christianity … Continue reading
Christianity and masculinity
May 27, 2017, 10:49 p.m.

Biblical prescriptions with no Bible

I previously wrote about a review of Danny Silk’s Defining the Relationship marriage book, and gave it a pretty bad review. Namely, because it did not discuss one time in the Scriptures of the roles and relationships in marriage such … Continue reading
Christianity and masculinity
May 26, 2017, 6:19 p.m.

Men lead, women follow

Donal has a post up on overt and covert in regard to mating tendencies. I have been doing some thinking lately how the whole process of actively trying to “woo” someone. There are two main models which are proposed, one … Continue reading
Christianity and masculinity
May 24, 2017, 4:27 p.m.

Mother’s Day in review

Little late to the party, but the previous Mother’s day my pastor actually just walked the congregation through the Scriptures. It was the first time I’ve seen that happen, ever, so I was impressed. Took a few notes on what … Continue reading
Christianity and masculinity
May 23, 2017, 8:38 p.m.

Questionable strategy

There was recently a boundless post on Am I too strong? which is written by a woman. Have you ever been told that you’re too strong to date? Or, have you wondered why you’re successful in several areas of life, … Continue reading
Christianity and masculinity
May 11, 2017, 4:17 p.m.

The questionability of eros

“Eros” as a Greek term isn’t found anywhere in the Scriptures. Every time I hear a Christian refer to how love in marriage is “eros” I somewhat get the inkling feeling that it’s questionable. Now, I suppose you could tie … Continue reading
Christianity and masculinity
May 1, 2017, 10:12 p.m.

From the mailbag: marital rape rants, sexual attraction, and more

Sometimes I receive anonymous e-mails like this: You wrote on the subject of marital rape….and you decided to twist the bibles words on the subject. I can only assume one would do this to make themselves feel better about the … Continue reading
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April 24, 2017, 8:46 p.m.

Feminine beauty is highly controllable theory and analysis Part 2

A good amount of discussion was had in women don’t really understand male attraction. For the women that actually care about doing something about attracting a man, this post will educate you on that. Also worth noting is Dalrock’s most … Continue reading
Christianity and masculinity
April 21, 2017, 4:25 a.m.

Women don’t really understand male attraction and implications

TPC’s response to feminine beauty is highly controllable theory and analysis is interesting. Although there is the typical disdain for anything that men have to say about women (which is amusing to say the least), this seems to indicate that … Continue reading
Christianity and masculinity
April 12, 2017, 7:44 p.m.