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How To Adjust “On The Fly” on First and Second Dates

In most areas of life, you have direct feedback to tell you exactly how well or poorly you’re doing. In sports, the scoreboard or your coach will tell you, quite quickly, whether or not you’re doing the correct thing. In business, your most recent profit and loss statement can tell you if you’re on the... Continue Reading →

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May 18, 2017, noon

Dating Trends I’ve Noticed in the Last 10 Years

A few months ago, I celebrated my ten year anniversary as an unmarried Alpha Male 2.0. It has also been about eight years since I professionally started this Blackdragon endeavor as a dating and relationship advisor to men. Ten years is a long time… ten years of dates, women, nonmonogamous relationships, and communicating with literally... Continue Reading →

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May 15, 2017, noon

The Story of My History with Women – Part 5 – Gold-Diggers and Provider Hunters

This is the fifth installment of the book that I never published, regarding my history with women and the lessons I learned from it. If you haven’t yet, you should read parts one, two, three, and four before you read the article below, so you can be up to speed on where the story picks... Continue Reading →

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May 11, 2017, noon

Text Game Part 5 – Texting During Relationships

Many years ago, I had an ongoing series at this blog on text game. These were some of the most popular posts at the time, and I was able to write four installments before I stopped writing about that particular topic for whatever reason. Lately, one of the guys at the Alpha 2.0 Community requested... Continue Reading →

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May 8, 2017, noon

What Would You Have Done Differently If You Had Known?

When you’re an older guy, it’s an enjoyable and sometimes shocking intellectual exercise to ask yourself what you would have done when you were 18 or 20 years old knowing everything you know now. Today, I’ll run down a list of questions I’ve received over the years, both in the women and business areas, which... Continue Reading →

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May 4, 2017, noon

Do Opposites Attract?

“Opposites attract” has been an age-old saying going back perhaps 200 years. You’ve probably seen a lot of anecdotal evidence in your life that supports it. I certainly have. But is it accurate? The answer is yes… and no. I shall explain. A few years ago, there was a woman I was playing around with... Continue Reading →

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May 1, 2017, noon

Pro’s and Con’s: Older Women vs. Younger Women

There are great things about dating younger women, and very bad things. There are great things about dating older women, and very bad things. Today I will examine both in detail. First, as always, we need to get our definitions straight. What exactly does “older” or “younger” mean? Longtime readers know that in general, I... Continue Reading →

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April 27, 2017, noon

Stop With the Excuses!

Your excuses are pathetic. They make you pathetic. Listed below are the typical excuses I get from lazy, whiny little bitches who say they can’t get laid. They are numbered in no particular order. Over time, I will add new items to this list to make a living document, just like my Objections to Nonmonogamy... Continue Reading →

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April 24, 2017, noon

Bill O’Reilly Harassment

I normally don’t like analyzing current events like this, but today’s an exception. I find this entire Bill O’Reilly thing hugely fascinating and I’ve been thinking about it a lot lately. For those of you outside the US or who don’t follow the news, it recently came out that a conservative, nationally-known political commentator on... Continue Reading →

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April 20, 2017, noon

Would You Take a Magic Pill to Eliminate Your Need For Sex?

A reader, Kyle, recently asked a very interesting question: Here’s a theoretical question I’m curious to hear your answer to. Although I feel that sex is probably the most enjoyable thing about being a man, at the same time, I have often found myself looking forward to old age and what comes with it: my... Continue Reading →

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April 17, 2017, noon

Because of Technology, Sexual Monogamy Will Soon Be Impossible

I’m now going to demonstrate why sexual monogamy and cheating will soon become literally impossible, due to technological advancements that are coming to your life very soon, and how either celibacy or nonmonogamous relationships will soon be your only two options. I was going to fill this article with crazy technological details, but fortunately, the... Continue Reading →

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April 13, 2017, noon

The Lion

The core of this story belongs to Tony Robbins, though I have Blackdragonized it. For many of you, this is your story. Once upon a time, a lion cub lived with his mother and father in the pride on the plains of Africa. One day, a group of hunters attacked the pride. The lion cub... Continue Reading →

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April 10, 2017, noon

How to Deal With Shaming Language from Family and Friends

I have received more email questions on this topic than probably any other lifestyle issue. Seriously, I get a lot of emails from you guys about this. You’re living the Alpha Male 2.0 life and having a great time. Then your friend, mom, sister-in-law, or some other person in your life starts flipping you shit... Continue Reading →

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April 6, 2017, noon

Alpha Male Fairy Tales: Beauty and the Beast

  Once upon a time, there lived a young, beautiful, carefree schizophrenic named Belle. She lived in a distant village with her eccentric father, Maurice, who spent most of the day smoking reefer with his pipe. Always deep into her psychosis, she spent most of her days frolicking in the forest and talking to various... Continue Reading →

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April 3, 2017, noon

Great Blackdragon Debate 4: Having Kids Makes You Happy, Or Not?

Welcome, one and all, to the fourth Great Blackdragon Debate! Today, “Fred” steps up to debate me on the my contention that having kids makes you less happy in the long-term. As always, both of us have adhered to the 1700 character limit for each response. The specific topic will will be debating today is:... Continue Reading →

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March 30, 2017, noon

The Difference Between Kino and Sexual Escalation

Physical touch, when used correctly in a dating environment, is a huge attractor on several levels. Not only does it feel good, but it also demonstrates massive confidence and a very strong, sexual, Alpha EFA. Win all over the place. This is commonly called kino, and it’s a critical component of your dating process pre-sex.... Continue Reading →

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March 27, 2017, noon

The Alpha Male 2.0 Social Network Is Now Open (And Changes Here At This Blog)

The Alpha 2.0 Community that I described last week is now open! Go here to sign up for free: www.alpha20community.com I fully described the community last week here, but a quick summary is: The Alpha 2.0 Community Blog – A public blog where members can give advice and opinions on the topics of the day.... Continue Reading →

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March 23, 2017, noon

The 9 Different Marriage Legal Structures

When someone hears the word “married,” they automatically assume it’s the standard type of marriage pushed by Societal Programming, which I’ve always called TMM (traditional monogamous marriage), a term I listed in my glossary long ago. To be fair, some form of TMM usually is what people are talking about. However, more and more people... Continue Reading →

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March 20, 2017, noon

Announcing the Alpha Male 2.0 Social Network

I’ve been working on this project for a while now, and I’ve hinted at this a few times. I’ve had many of you, and I mean many of you, ask for something like this for many years. It took us a while, but we’ve finally finished it. Next week, we will be going live with... Continue Reading →

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March 16, 2017, noon

Alpha 2.0 Business Seminar and Coaching in Shanghai in April!

I’m going to be in Shanghai for a few weeks in April, and while I’m there I can show you how to increase your income through own location independent business so you can live a more free and happy life. I’m doing a business seminar there and have set aside time for some one-on-one, in-person... Continue Reading →

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March 13, 2017, noon