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Don’t Let The Collapse of Western Civilization Get You Down

Looks like some of you are getting depressed. I’m getting an increasing amount of you telling me that despite having a positive attitude and working on your goals, constantly watching our once great Western Civilization crumble around you is affecting your happiness, mood, and anger. A lot of you Americans tell me that constantly seeing... Continue Reading →

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Nov. 20, 2017, 1 p.m.

Can Societal Programming Ever Be Good?

One of the over-arching themes to all of my writing, if not the over-arching theme, is that your mind is full of false Societal Programming that seems right, but is actually the opposite to how objective reality operates. Therefore, managing your life in accordance with these falsehoods will create conflict, pain, and unhappiness for you,... Continue Reading →

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Nov. 16, 2017, 1 p.m.

Sexual Compatibility

Many years ago, I was talking to a very cute woman on an online dating site. When I pitched a first meet at a coffee shop, she countered by saying that I should just come over to her apartment, and perhaps bring some wine. My eyes bugged out of my skull, since out of thousands... Continue Reading →

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Nov. 13, 2017, 1 p.m.

Open Relationships: Won’t He / She Fall In Love With Someone Else?

It is the biggest fear people have about serious, nonmonogamous relationships. It’s one of the biggest excuses people make. Even people who admit that monogamy doesn’t work experience a lot of fear and angst about this. I mean hey, Suzi and Don had an open relationship, and Suzi eventually fell in love with one of... Continue Reading →

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Nov. 9, 2017, 1 p.m.

6 Effective Things Do To When You Feel Unmotivated

I occasionally hear some of you complain that sometimes you feel bored, unmotivated, and too complacent to get off your ass and make things happen in your life to make you a happier and more successful man. I also hear from many guys that their sex drive is unusually low and that they barely desire... Continue Reading →

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Nov. 6, 2017, 1 p.m.

Avoid “Event” Dates

The word “date” is a tricky one, since it applies to a wide range of activities, vibes, and implications. The word “date” can mean everything from a quick one-hour meet at Starbucks where you order nothing and just talk, to going rock climbing at the local gym for two hours, to an extravagant evening with... Continue Reading →

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Nov. 2, 2017, 5:01 p.m.

What To Do When She Tells You She’s Pregnant

It is perhaps the greatest fear men in the dating world have, particularly those in the US or Canada where child support laws are ridiculously unfair and oppressive towards men. She tells you she’s pregnant, or at least thinks she is. Regardless of if she’s just a FB or your serious girlfriend, you freak out.... Continue Reading →

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Oct. 30, 2017, noon

More Irrational Bitching About the Age Gap in Dating

Oh man. A lot of you emailed me this NY Times article written by a 30 year-old woman bitching about how men like to date younger women. Instead of posting actual quotes from the article, I’m going to instead address the overall points it makes. If you feel I am not accurately representing the points... Continue Reading →

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Oct. 26, 2017, noon

All This Celebrity Sexual Harassment – A Dark Cultural Change… for Men

Part of my role here is to inform free-minded men that they are living in a problematic era wherein the once great Western civilization is slowly collapsing all around us, being destroyed mostly from within. At my other blog, I’ve talked a lot about the economic reasons, and just recently, I posted this article about... Continue Reading →

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Oct. 23, 2017, noon

Join Me for an Alpha 2.0 Business Seminar in Dubai in November!

I’m headed to Dubai next month and I’ve set aside a day to do a my full-blown Alpha 2.0 business seminar so you can learn how to create your own high-income, low-work, location independent business and free yourself from the corporate grind. I have a decent amount of readers and customers in the more free... Continue Reading →

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Oct. 19, 2017, noon

The 12 Months and How They Relate To Dating and Relationships

I’ve spoken at length at this blog and in my books that certain times of the year are good for dating and meeting new women, and bad. Also, certain months are good for relationships while others are more risky or problematic for relationships. Today I will summarize all 12 months and how they relate to... Continue Reading →

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Oct. 16, 2017, noon

Another Pick-Up Artist Gets Married – An Analysis

Yet another big time pick-up artist (PUA) has surrendered to traditional monogamous marriage (TMM). This time it’s Richard La Runia, aka Gambler. For those of you not well versed in the PUA community, he was from the original crowd dating back to Style and Mystery. Gambler and Adam Lyons (AFC Adam) are the two big... Continue Reading →

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Oct. 12, 2017, noon

Charts – Where You Fall on the Alpha / Beta Scale

Most of us understand the basic, black-and-white differences between an Alpha Male and a beta male. Problems with these definitions arise when we get into the issue of degree. I’ve talked before about men who are “cool betas” or “confident betas” as well as “extreme betas.” Many commenters have pointed out that there are degrees... Continue Reading →

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Oct. 9, 2017, noon

In Relationships: Commanding vs Responding

One of the guys over at the Alpha 2.0 Community asked this question: BD you mention you “never control women” and “literally let them do whatever they want”. It would help if you could elaborate on that! How to deal with minor annoyances/behaviors of her you would like to correct. How all of that relates... Continue Reading →

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Oct. 5, 2017, noon

“What If Everyone Did That?”

One of the dumbest, lamest, most irrational responses to some of my techniques is this: Oh my GOD! What if EVERYONE did that?!? That would be a nightmare because…! Sometimes I get its little brother, the excuse of, That’s stupid advice! Not everyone can do that!!! Honestly, I get this excuse all the time. I... Continue Reading →

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Oct. 2, 2017, noon

A Dragon in Philadelphia (and a little Denver too)

This is the second time I’ve been to Philadelphia, and this time around I had much more time to explore the city and its people. I also spent a few days in Denver on this trip, but not enough to make a full analysis, so I’ll quickly summarize Denver at the end of this article.... Continue Reading →

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Sept. 28, 2017, noon

Why We Have Sex – A Philosophical Perspective

We all know why we have sex. We have sex because we’re horny. We have sex because our biology compels us to. We have sex to have babies (well, not usually, but sometimes). We have sex to deepen a connection to another person (well, not usually, but sometimes). In some cases, particularly with men, we... Continue Reading →

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Sept. 25, 2017, noon

Having Multiple Girlfriends?

Every once in a while, I get this question from one of you, either in the comments here or in my email. It usually goes something like this: Hey BD, you say that when you have an OLTR girlfriend or wife, you can’t have any other OLTR’s (girlfriends or wives) or MLTR‘s; you can just... Continue Reading →

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Sept. 21, 2017, noon

How To Identify Alphas and Betas, Star Trek Style

Gonna try something very different today. How you guys react to it will determine if I do something again like it in the future. For a long time now, I’ve received many emails and comments requesting an article about how to identify Alpha Males and beta males. I never thought of an entertaining or interesting... Continue Reading →

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Sept. 18, 2017, noon

Getting Started with Alpha 2.0 Later in Life

When you read about all the aspects of Alpha Male 2.0 that I describe on this blog as well as in great detail in my book, including having location independent income, nonmonogamous relationships with multiple women, and a higher income on a lower amount of work hours per week, it’s easy to visualize how to... Continue Reading →

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Sept. 14, 2017, noon